I was thinking about monogamy today because I never thought in my life it would be rarity in the dating world to find a woman who wanted to raise a family in a monogamous relationship.
My personal opinion is that to be in open relationship, ethical non monogamy, polyamory eg any relationship where the person you care about id fucking other people requires an extremely high level of emotional intelligence to achieve.
However what I'm witnessing as both a health professional and as an intuitive is a program running that was specifically designed to break down the family unit and communities.
I actually think deep down everyone wants a sacred bond with someone else but most people either doubt their self worth, are lonely or have a loathing towards themself.
I also believe the movement is being controlled by men even though its hidden under the rise and freedom of the feminine and feminism.
So for what its worth
I have two messages one for women and one for men oh yeah and I don't do the whole make up your gender game.
To women - There are men that would whole heartily commit to you, without the games, manipulation and gas lighting.
To men - Grow up there is a level of masculine energy inside of you that is ready to rise and lead with.
Now you can call me old school, bigot or whatever you want but I know the Relationship I will be in in the future, will be where me and my special person do it all over our furniture not one where one partner is at home while the other is fucking someone else.
Value yourself even if you have to be single for longer than you like, you deserve deep respect and honouring not childish games.
PS for all you super shaggers out there who think you are super enlightened and that's why you fuck around.
I call bullshit on you, I actually think your just a scared little boy or girl who is afraid to be vulnerable and truly seen.
PPS This is also a post for me to stay accountable to my own dreams and to believe in my own worth and to stay disciplined and trust it will happen.